“Our coach came to our locker room after a game we lost. He lifted me and two of my friends to their feet, pulling on our jerseys and saying, “You see, these friends were running and sweating the whole game. This sweat is their labor. You didn't do anything, you just stared blankly. Be ashamed of yourself. You have to be like these friends, or you will be nothing. You are nothing.”
When he was a young Athlete, a conflict broke out between him and the opposing team in a final match. A few players on the opposing team are trying to demoralize this male player by pointing to the team and himself with gestures and facial expressions. Opposing team players swearing and insulting. The event grows and reflects on the coaches and managers of the teams. The coach makes threatening sentences by provoking the Athlete, implying what will happen to him at the end of the match. These negative statements are also reflected in the referee's decisions and the emotional state of the stands. At that time, families are involved in the event with a protective attitude, since the athletes are young.
A female handball player receives a harsh warning from her trainer during training. Despite the low performance of the whole team in the training, the coach only warns this female athlete and scolds her by keeping her separate from her teammates. The coach, who is more tolerant when someone else makes the same mistake, causes the athlete to have self-confidence problems. This female athlete, who has been doing this sport for many years, has been victimized by this incident and similar events, so she moves away from handball and quits the sport. The coach, who constantly criticizes this female athlete's performance negatively, prefers to ignore the athlete's positive behavior.
The female handball athlete is exposed to negative statements by her trainer due to her poor performance during the match. By shouting loudly, pointing and tugging at her jersey, her coach scolds the athlete in front of her teammates, the stands and her opponents. He warns harshly with insults, profanity and sarcasm. There are insults to the athlete's appearance, intelligence and social life. […]This female athlete faced such negative behaviors in other teams she went to.
“Shiptars, Musims…” (“Shiptars” is a derogatory term used in the former Yugoslavia to insult Albanians).